How To Fall In Love With Your Life’s Journey

Published on: March 18, 2018

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Why Do You Compare Your Life To Others?

“You must not let your life run in the ordinary way; do something that nobody else has done, something that will dazzle the world. Show that the creative principle works in you.” — Paramahansa Yogananda

Does your life feel like a series of challenges, rather than a journey of self-discovery and fulfilment? It’s important to know how you feel about your life’s journey to make sense of it. Perhaps you haven’t given it much thought, yet below the surface something is simmering. You might find yourself reacting to situations or get frustrated things aren’t going your way. I want to put your mind at ease because what you’re experiencing is normal and you are bound to face it from time to time. As a testament to this, when I run seminars, I often ask audience members to close their eyes and bring their awareness to a part of their body in pain. I invite them to focus on what the pain feels like. This exercise lasts a few minutes before they open their eyes and describe the emotional relationship to their pain. Many people describe the pain with strong emotions. At this point, I ask them whether these emotions are apparent in their life. It is my experience, what a person feels in their body is a result of what is mirrored in their life.

The mind-body experience is powerful and if we’re not aware what is happening below the level of our thoughts, it can manifest as pain, to draw our awareness to it. Many people are unhappy with their lives and compare it to others, which intensifies their suffering. It’s natural to compare ourselves to others when we’re not living to our fullest potential. But it is unwise to do so because we are comparing our behind-the-scenes to everyone else’s highlight reel. Can you see that comparing your life to others intensifies your anguish? Your emotional guidance is a powerful faculty and invites you to stop comparing yourself to others. We are unique and different in our own special way. Someone else’s success shouldn’t diminish your self-worth but help to realise what is possible, if you honour your inner wisdom.

No Two Journeys Are The Same

“Instead of wondering where your next vacation is, maybe you ought to set up a life you don’t need to escape from.” — Seth Godin

In this period of Instagram living where everyone Photoshops the best version of their lives, it is difficult to find our way among the disingenuous. You will never get it right as long as you’re alive because there’s always something to learn: something to gain, something to let go of, to heal, to overcome or make peace with. Your life is a wonderful journey of peaks and valleys and it is unfolding perfectly contrary to your beliefs. Your life’s journey is a delightful narrative shaped by you the director, producer and main character. You can manifest a better version of your life, if you’re willing to take control of it instead of believing you are powerless. You can create ideal conditions for yourself when you realise your power is something that must be cultivated, not left to chance. Up till now, you may not have employed this power properly and as a result your problems seem bigger than you. It was Albert Einstein who said: “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.” That is, we must step outside our known paradigms and consider our situation from a different perspective. Moreover, we may not know what we want out of life, which is reflected through our current circumstances. Nevertheless, this means we haven’t taken action to steer our life in a different direction.

Your life is an unfolding performance and you needn’t tie it to how successful you are now because success is transient. Success comes and goes and whilst it may last years, it can unravel like a sequinned necklace, if an area of your life goes south. We ought to fall in love with our life’s journey because no two journeys are the same. Comparing our life to others seldom brings peace and joy, but heartache and misery, because we think we’re not living to our fullest potential. What if we are? What if our potential is being unearthed through our setbacks and challenges? What if the very things we dislike about our life, is creating the circumstances for our journey to flourish in the years ahead? It was the Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius who said: “The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.”

When The Hero’s Journey Is Complete

“Most of us do not ‘sculpt’ our lives. We accept what comes our way, then we gripe about it.” — Susan Jeffers

To fall in love with our life, we ought to embrace the journey replete with the lows. I’m not suggesting we fall in love with misery or disappointment, but consider them as fleeting moments. They’re intended to advance us not stop us, since our journey is exactly as it should be. However, if we become mired in our circumstances, we will think our problems are bigger than us and feel unable to overcome them. Problems are not Stop Signs; they are Give Way signs. They give way to our greatest potential because without obstacles and challenges how will we realise who we truly are? To discover our true essence, we must reach into our core being where our setbacks and challenges can be overcome. The good and bad news is; none of us are immune to them, not even the Instagram stars. I wonder if they compiled the low points of their life online, whether they would have a handful of followers. So, embrace this life you are given. Savour the highs points and welcome the low points because contrast serves a purpose; to help you discover what is meaningful to you. What is your life’s narrative leading you towards? Is it one of persistence, compassion, self-esteem or courage? As the main star of your show there’s a theme or narrative that interweaves through each scene until the final one when the hero’s journey is complete. Don’t give up on the hero’s journey, because when everything seems bleak with no end in sight that is when your life will come together exactly as it should.




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